Thank you everyone for your advice. It isn't an easy decision. A lot of my work is experimental, working with abstraction and macro imagery. I get the feeling that the FX3 is seen by Sony as a bit more of a camera for film than the A7S MKIII and it does sound like it is being more supported with firmware. I don't know how much I'd miss the EVF. I would be using my Atomos Ninja for pretty much all the shoots but recognise that an EVF might be helpful with bright sunlight an in other situations.
I am not at all wedded to Sony - I have a Canon 5D MKIII, Panasonic Lumix GH5 and Sony A7S MKII (dedicated to infrared). I am just looking for the best match for my needs, within my price range. The A7S MKIII has generally been very well reviewed and the FX3 too. I know that there are others.
I think I am swaying to the FX3 - really appreciate your thoughts on this - it's helping me.